I’m re-posting this article I wrote several years ago. I hope it adds meaning to your holiday season.
This post will be merely interesting if you don’t act on these suggestions. It will be immensely rewarding if you do.
Think about the people whose influence helped you become who you are today, people who have made a significant, positive and lasting difference in your life.
Now take a few moments and make a list of their names. No matter your age, the list is not long. Just take a few moments and write their names.
Chances are you haven’t thought about some of these people in a while. Some might have passed away.
Visualize each person, one-by-one.
Think about what each one did that influenced you in such a powerful, lasting way.
Now, answer this question: Do they know what a huge difference they made in your life? I submit that unless you have told them, they do not know.
Here comes the immensely rewarding part: tell them. Tell them in person, or tell them in a hand-written letter. Tell them openly, sincerely, authentically from your heart. Do it before you lose the opportunity. They won’t be here forever.
If you’re visualizing actually doing this, you might be uncomfortable or even apprehensive. That’s normal. This sort of profoundly personal, emotional disclosure is rare in our society. Do it anyway.
I promise. Those of you who do this will find it enormously gratifying. For each person you tell, it will be the most meaningful gift that person has received in a very long time.
I’d love to hear accounts from those who try this.